Thursday, June 3, 2010

The Angels

I debated about complaining anymore on here, but I think I would be an absolute jerk not to acknowledge the fact that during our week from HAIL we were also greeted by some pretty sweet ANGELS.

I need to first back up and say that things didn't get any better after the hail storm. Our entire crawl space completely flooded with about 4 inches of water! And we didn't realize it until Saturday morning. We checked the day of the storm and everything was fine, but the sump pump (the thing that drains any water down there) had broken in the meantime. We don't have a basement so our crawl space is the size of our entire downstairs. The flooding made for a LOT of mess and a lot of tears. I lost a few decorations and other random items, but the worst of it was that my baby book, Tom's mission journals, some pictures and other sentimental things got completely soaked! I guess we were kind of stupid in how we had it down there. We had lots of things in big plastic bins, but other things were just in big boxes. So learn a lesson from us so you don't end up with a garbage pile as big as this...

But let me move on to the happy part...the angels.

Becky: Tom's sister. She came to visit us for the weekend and we felt awful that we had to spend so much time working on house things for much of the time she was here. It really changed all our fun weekend plans with her. But at the same time, we were SO appreciative of her being here to help with the kids. She was so sweet and kept them completely entertained pretty much all Saturday. It would have been next to impossible to have gotten anything done without her.

The Ellis men: Our home-teachers. The last time our home-teachers left us with, "Is there anything we can do for you?" I'm sure they had no idea what they were in for. At first, just Tom and I were trying to clear everything out of the crawl space, but let's face it 1) I'm a wuss and can't lift all that much AND 2) we've accumulated a LOT of stuff during our 5 1/2 years in this house. Glen and Glenny so willingly came right over and helped get the entire crawl space cleared out. It was quite a project, but it would have taken us FOREVER to have done it alone.

Danny: our neighbor. Danny is a fantastic handy-man. When we first saw the flooding we talked to a couple companies and had one come out and give us an estimate of almost $600 to fix the problem. (Insurance doesn't cover our crawl space.) Remember, Tom and I have no clue how to do most home repairs. So I went over to talk to Danny and without even thinking about it, he came right over to help. He not only had an extra sump pump on hand (which we of course reimbursed him for later), but he spent the next few hours helping Tom replace it, pushing the water with brooms towards the pump, and clearing away the whole plastic moisture barrier. In the end he saved us about $450!

My mom: I'm 30 years old, but I still need my mommy. She's listened to me vent and cry several times during this past week and a half. She was the perfect balance of comforting me, giving me advice, but also telling me to suck it up (she of course didn't use those words :) ). I love having her to call whenever I need/want!

A few other things have happened since, but really nothing REALLY bad has happened, you know? It's just ALL of these things happening at the same time that has made me feel at my wits' end emotionally. But things are looking up and I am so very grateful for all the people that have helped us with all this craziness!

11 comments:

Marissa Marie said...

Moms are great at comforting but also saying suck it up! At least mine is. That damage would bum anyone out!

Olivia said...

What/where is a crawl space? I'm so sorry you had to deal with all this lame damage. Thank goodness for kind people and those mommy shoulders to cry on. Best of luck with it all.

Adrienne said...

We have been thinking about you guys and hope things look up. You deserve a really great June with all kinds of great things coming your way.

Hollie said...

Wow! What a week. I am sorry to hear that your crawl space got flooded. I always thought that the sump pump in our basement was worthiness but now I know they are very useful. I hope things start getting better. Your weather this week looks really awesome. See you in two weeks.

Tam said...

I am so sorry to hear about your flood - that is my worst fear with our basement and i would have cried right a long with you.

Emily B said...

I am sorry that you lost the baby books and journals and things. That stuff is irreplaceable. This really sucks, Rachel. You seem pretty upbeat still with all that's happened.

And BTW I totally see that in Kirk. I'm going to show Kevin next time I make him watch it with me.

Jen said...

Oh goodness, that is some huge hail and major damage. Thanks for the tip, though--first things I'll buy in DC are plastic storage containers.

Sad sad, but also hooray for angels and a positive outlook.

Alanya/Ally said...

I'm so sorry about the crawl space. I don't put stuff down there just because I'm a wimp and think there must be something unpleasant living down there... and I am not about to enter "it's" home. I totally feel for you with losing treasured memories. Last year our computer crashed and I didn't have back up files for any of my pictures and we lost literally everything!

Thank goodness for wonderful people in your life. Imagine what the world would be like if we all had someone like your neighbor, your home teachers, your SIL, or your mom. They really are angels!

I hope this week is much, much better than last. Give me a call if ever your mom is unavailable. I'll try to be of service to you and lend an ear and a "suck it up" in a nice way. Good luck with the rest of repairs.

The Higginbothams said...

I'm glad Tom's sister was there to help out. Keep us in mind if you ever need a babysitter, or heaven forbid, have another mess like that. I'd come pick up your girls in a heartbeat.
So sorry to hear about your keepsakes that were ruined. Did any of your neighbors have flooding or sump pump issues? Danny sounds great. I'm sure I'd be on the phone in tears with my mom too!

JJ said...

I thought it was funny that you debated about complaining on here....isn't that what blogging is about. Complaining, talking about life, rambling, getting advice, and everything else in between.

It's good to complain/vent to get it out of your system. if you don't it gets bottled up and then you explode. trust me I know!

Hugs to you dealing with the crawl space fiasco. it sucks when you can't control your world.

Kari Clark said...

What a crazy storm! I was out of town but Rob called me as it was happening - so crazy! I'm so sorry about the crawl space - that is the WORST - I'll stop complaining about our shredded gazebo after hearing about all that you lost.