Weight Gain: I kid (kind of), but really, gaining weight is no fun. It's been especially hard this go around because I worked so very hard last year and got down to the lowest I'd been since high school. Granted I've never been a little girl (Koch girls are curvy), but that was still dang good for me. I thought that by starting at a lower weight that I would end lower overall. Turns out that my body has its own little (or not so little) plan when it's pregnant though. If you were to look at my doctor's chart, you would see that no matter what weight I started at, I ended on the exact end pound with all 3 pregnancies. Crazy huh? And right now I'm looking to be on that same path. So yeah, that's not fun to see, but I guess my body knows what it's doing to get healthy babies here. I do have to say that a few weeks ago while I was driving somewhere all alone, I had a moment when I suddenly felt so grateful that my body can even do this! I thought, "Who cares [about the weight gain]! You are bringing one of Heavenly Father's children to this world! This sacrifice is more than worth it." I try and remind myself of that short-lived perspective often.
Exercise: So I've covered that exercise hasn't helped me in the weight-gain department, but it has made me feel overall so much better. I've kept up my same exercise routine from before and am quite happy about this. I go to the gym 3 (aim for 4) times a week doing my same class (cardio/weight intervals), and I'm pretty sure carrying my 31+ lbs son around counts for something (he ended up in the 97th percentile in height and 75th in weight at his 2 yr old appt, by the way!). I had AWFUL sciatic nerve pain until about week 21/22 and I am so happy to say that I woke up one morning and it was completely gone! I'm not sure if it's because the baby just shifted or if maybe exercise has helped. I swear exercise has at least taken away (or postponed) some of the aches and pains I usually have by this point.
Cravings: I had some funny cravings at the beginning: turkey bacon and a strong, random desire to watch Wheel of Fortune, but those have mostly subsided. I like to use the excuse that Del Taco is a craving, but really it's just a love that started while pregnant with Everett and it's never gone away.
Sickness: None! Hallelujah! This is my first pregnancy where I haven't continued to throw up at least 1-2 times a week until the end. I think any nausea I had went away around week 20. Yippee!
Movement: This little girl hasn't been too wiggly just yet, but just this week her activity has really picked up. This is my first baby who's had (or more likely that I've noticed) hiccups. It's kind of cute. The girls have been super excited at the couple times when they've had the chance to feel her kicks.
Thoughts on Having Another Girl: We did have our other ultra-sound and it is for sure a girl! I feel so much better having seen the 3 lines myself. I'm having a hard time expressing to people that I really am excited about this. I feel like I shouldn't have to convince people, but I get so annoyed after I say "girl" and people give me that look and say "Ohhh." Do they really think I'm sad? It's not like I found out I actually have an alien growing inside me this time. I've had some interesting conversations where I've left really sad when I'm left defending girls. It just drives me nuts when people feel the need to tell me why one is better than the other (mainly that boys are better than girls). Yes, boys and girls are pretty darn different, but so is each child! And at the risk of sounding cheesy, each is so special and unique. (Girls just have the added bonus of cute clothes and accessories! So I guess they're better. ;) )
Baby Names: We may already have this baby named. Can you believe it?! This is so not like us! It's a super simple name that we've loved for years, and it's just feeling right this time. I think I'm the only one in the family not fully ready to commit though. I guess I just feel like I have to cover every name in the world until the very end.
So that's about it for now. Things are going well. I have my glucose test tomorrow. Yummy, yum, yum! Only 12ish more weeks to go. Yikes!

13 comments:
I'm so glad you posted this!!! I've been wanting a baby update from you! You look so cute with your little baby bump! You are amazing to work out during pregnancy, good job! Do you usually go over your due date? Cause we are are gonna be having babies at the same time (they'll take mine early at 37 weeks, which puts me right on the same week as you), hopefully we can have them on their own special days, or maybe it would be fun to have a big huge cousin birthday! I just realized last night I've got 12 weeks left too and I was very excited! It's getting closer, wahoo!!!
It is so fun to read your pregnancy update. You look super cute pregnant too. I'm so happy that you guys are having a girl too!
Your updates are always so fun... I feel like I'm always up to date on the Bjorkmans even though I hardly get to see you. BTW, you are looking great at week 28!
I was talking to a couple ladies in my ward yesterday who had september babies and they said it was their favorite time to have a baby. they felt like it was early enough to avoid the worst part of cold/flu season, they could float in the pool all summer...and the baby was big enough by the next summer that they could enjoy the outdoorsy, ie, in az, swimming summer activities. swimming is a big focus when it's 100+ degrees every day. And you are always a cute preggo.
You are SO CUTE!! I want to be you when I grow up! And I agree with Marissa above - September is an awesome time to have a baby. And a birthday. :) My tip of the day: go swimming! It feels so good on the joints to be able to (kind of) get rid of gravity for a while. Oh and when do we get a detailed weight loss post? I refuse to believe that you even had weight to lose. You've always looked as tiny as you did in High School to me. But I want to know your secrets. Cause this baby weight of mine ain't budging. :/
PS - Did you cut your hair? It's so cute! Love the layers.
You're adorable. You do look pretty small for being 28 weeks along. I hope your doctor is wrong and you end up with a little peanut like Reese. And I'm sad to hear that people think boys are better than girls. They're definitely different, but I love my girls. My sister Jodi has all boys, and I feel bad for her that she never got a girl. I'm excited to see pictures of your next pretty girl, and I'm excited to hear her name!
Really? You have to defend GIRLS?! I'm rather surprised. I could see people giving you "that look" if you had all girls and no boys, but you have a boy so you've got at least one of each! Plus girls are a lot easier to manage (in my opinion) during the terrible two's than boys are. Plus that relationship between mother and daughter, though often fraught with challenges, is also much more frequent and deep than exists with boys (talking about adult years). I mean, aren't these things obvious? Especially when you have one of each gender, what's left for people to give you a hard time about? Seriously, what are they giving you a hard time about? I think you should have TWO girls - pop out twins - that'll show 'em!
Yes, Heidi, I have been totally surprised at how many people through my mothering years have loved to express to me how frustrating and emotional girls are and how difficult it's going to be for me to raise them, blah blah blah. I should probably clarify that there are definitely plenty of nice and polite people when I tell them it's another girl. It's just those fun few who get on my nerves with their comments--like I must just be so bummed that I didn't get the perfect family of 2 girls and 2 boys. I LOVE LOVE LOVE my boy, but to this point, he has for sure been my hardest. (Then people always tell me that that will switch and how hard my girls will be as teenagers. Talk to my mom and she will tell you that her 4 boys were much harder than her 3 girls.)
You look great! And yes, with the defending of the girls...I hear ya!
You look so adorable pregnant Rachel. It sounds like this pregnancy has been a bit easier this time around. I guess your body just has everything all figured out now! Not sure why anyone would feel justified talking about gender disappointments. You can imagine all the many times I got the "your poor Dad" routine when they found out that I was the youngest of four girls. My parents couldn't imagine it any other way. Each child is so different, regardless of gender. Can't wait to find out her name and see her cute little face in "12ish" weeks!!
I love it! You are the best blog author ever.
I know what you mean about the another girl thing. When I had my third girl people were almost giving us (especially Mike) condolences. Especially when they would say you can try again and I'd say we are done. Not only were we done, but if I could have had another it probably would be a 4th girl. We truly are totally happy with all girls. People still say you HAVE to have a boy. Why are they bugging you anyway? You do have a boy...
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